Dr. Alduan Tartt, licensed clinical psychologist and minster, analyzes Marriage At First Sight couple Shawn and Nikki and why Shawn misses so many social cues and Nikki can't tell him that she is unattracted to him and is only there for his financial security. Married at First Sight Season 20: Can Nikki and Sean's Marriage Actually Be Saved? By the time Nikki and Sean reach their wedding night on Married at First Sight Season 20, the mask is all the way off — he is chasing ph

Dr. Alduan Tartt, licensed clinical psychologist, breaks down Married At First Sight (Season 20, Episode 3) with Shawn and Nikki and explores why some women settle and why some men are overly focused on physical intimacy before love and connection when no father-figure is there to guide them. When Strangers Marry: The Psychology Behind Nikki and Sean (Part One) Two strangers meet at an altar, sign a legal marriage license before they have ever shared a single meal, and by the

Dr. Alduan Tartt, clinical psychologist and minister, details the seven characteristics of good husbands to increase marriage satisfaction and marital education. Hey, let me ask you something honest: what if the man who could have loved you best is a man you already swiped past? See, we have all become experts on red flags — everybody can spot a red flag now. Red flags only tell you who to run from, though. Nobody ever taught you the green flags — the real, research-backed si

Dr. Alduan Tartt, clinical psychologist, breaks down the four most common reasons toxic relationships exist and how to break free. Why You Keep Falling for Damaged Men (and Can't Seem to Walk Away) It's Not Bad Luck — It's a Pattern Hey, let me teach you something I've watched play out for 28 years in my office: you are not choosing damaged men by accident. There is a reason the broken one feels like fireworks while the healthy one feels like nothing. Once you understand it,

Dr. Alduan Tartt, clinical psychologist and minister, provides the steps for how to properly decenter men and still find healthy, lasting love in relationships. Let me tell you the truth, because you deserve it straight. Decentering men was supposed to set you free, but somewhere along the way it got twisted. I've watched too many strong, brilliant, faithful women wear themselves out seeking validation from men — waiting on the text, reading into his "potential," letting his

Dr. Alduan Tartt, Christian psychologist and minister, provides encouragement and mental heath advice for dealing with guilt and toxic shame. You Don't Have to Keep Hiding There is something you have never told anyone. Not your spouse. Not your pastor. Not your closest friend. It's something you've been carrying in silence for so long that you've convinced yourself the silence is the only thing holding your life together. I want to say something to you directly — and I want

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Dr. Alduan Tartt, clinical psychologist, discusses the six reasons men and women delay dating based on trauma and provides solutions for each one.

If you are a single woman who is serious about finding her husband, the 9 wife material traits Dr. Alduan Tartt reveals in this post will change how you see yourself and what you attract. Psychology, research, and Proverbs 31 — all in one place, all designed for the woman who is ready to be found.