Dr. Alduan Tartt, licensed clinical psychologist and ordained minister, responds to the State of Dating Black Men Report in 2026 to bridge the gap between single men and single women. After more than a decade as a clinical psychologist working with professional women and the men they are trying to love, what I have found is not that Black men and Black women are incompatible — we are profoundly uncommunicating .  We are speaking two different emotional languages, carrying two

Dr. Alduan Tartt, licensed clinical psychologist and minister, discusses three habits that couples should have as believers to improve marital success and decrease divorce rates. If you want a stronger relationship, don’t just say you both believe in God—practice your faith together. Harvard’s Human Flourishing Program highlighted a 14-year study showing that regular religious service attendance was associated with about a 50% lower risk of divorce.   That should get every co

Dr. Alduan Tartt, licensed clinical psychologist and minister helps men and women to best attract a future spouse by building self-concept and following God's plan for finding a husband or wife. Your List Is Blocking the Man God Has For You You have been praying for him. You have been preparing for him. But what if the very list you have been using to find him is the reason you keep missing him? Most single women have spent years refining their checklist — his height, his inc